Frustrated

I know it's been a while since I have last blogged. Well, here goes..

This has been a frustrating weekend for me. The kids have been extra whiny, and have made me contemplate making an appt. to get my tubes tied many times, over the past couple months. (Please tell me that as the girls get older... they get less whiny....)

Quinn has been constantly waking up in the morning and from naps (after fighting me, to take a nap) in such a grumpy-guss mood! Then, she "tot-blocks" me....all football player style, as I am trying to walk around the house. Holding her arms up saying...mommy...mommy...   Now, don't get me wrong, I totally love my kids, and would do anything for them. But, there are times, mommy is frustrated,  just wants to be left alone <oh, sweet Moscato... come to mama> ;) ... or needs to get crap around the house done.

You know what else might take away my frustration? SEX. Yep, that's right- I said it. Now, some of you might be thinking.. OH MY GOSH.. T.M.I. ......that is such a private topic and it is very  taboo to be talking about it in a public forum. But, those that know me well.. know that sometimes, I have no filter.. and just say what I am thinking.

I love sex. I even read Fifty Shades of Grey...and everyone has sex. (well, if you have kids, you more than likely had sex at least however many times as you have kids... if you have 2 kids.. you have had sex at least 2 times.. right??)

My sex life sucks. No pun intended  The hubs and I (and yes he know's I and writing about our sex life)  have sex  a few times a month...and it's been that way for about 5 months. That is not much at all. I am not even 29 years old!!! I need more sex.
You might ask how I know how many times we have sex a month, well, I am an organized person, and thanks to my tech savvy hubs- he set me up all tech-like on Google calender... and yes, I put on my google calender when we have sex. Because I like to have my number correct when I go into a discussion about how little sex, we are having, or when the last time we had sex was. And, marking it on my calendar is my "ammunition" so-to-speak...during the conversation.

The last time we made love, was on Valentine's Day morning... and to our surprise... our daughter walks in on us! Flippin' A!!! I'm the one who locked and (thought I shut the door) guess... I didn't shut the door all the way. So, that... more than kind of killed the mood.

It is difficult to find time, to make love to your spouse, what.. with life: work, house, chores, kids (especially when your kids sleep in your bed... like ours more often than not, come into our room in the middle of the night and want to cuddle with mommy and daddy) , pets, or your spouse who works so hard (bless his heart) is so worn out at the end of the evening.. that he just falls asleep on the sofa. zzzzzz : )

But, tonight on the way back home from Bartlesville, I told Chris, we need  to.... gosh darn it, make time, to make-love....and we need to be more strict about the kids staying in their own rooms/beds. For my own sanity, stress relieve and to feel closer and more connected and intimate with my adoring husband.

How does your sex life fare?? Has it decreased post kids?? Especially if you have more than one kid?


PS- to anyone who is reading, that knows us, and lives close by, feel free to volunteer to baby-sit our kids, so Chris and I can go out or stay in, for a date night. Seriously.